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At Casa Amiga I met Esther Chávez Cano who a year and
a half ago opened what is the only rape and abuse crisis center
for women and children on the entire length of the Mexican side
of the US-Mexico border. Previous to her commitment to Casa Amiga
Chávez was not a doctor, a psychologist or a social worker
but an accountant who saw an indisputable, unfilled need for a
place like Casa Amiga. In visiting the facility Chávez
told me about some of the women over the previous two or three
days that had needed the resources her center provided. The cases
were truly awful and filled me with disgust and pity for what
humans do to others and themselves. Chávez was not giving
me examples of the all-time worst cases she had encountered while
serving women in Cd. Juárez but rather was just venting
about what she had seen in the past few days.
One young woman, age 15, deaf and mute had been repeatedly raped
by a neighbor before her godmother brought her to Casa Amiga.
Never having been schooled the young woman could not communicate
what had happened to her. Psychologists in turn had no way of
reaching her.
Another woman had been tied up for eight months in a man's home
while he repeatedly raped her and burned her breasts and vagina
with cigarettes. Her kidnapper would not have been prosecuted
had it not been for Casa Amiga's legal help.
Still another woman had come to Casa Amiga with a five-day old
baby and her four other kids. She was addicted to pain killers
throughout her pregnancy although she had given up heroin when
she discovered that she was carrying a child. Not wanting to have
any more children and not wanting to continue with her heroin-addict
husband's abuse and neglect she left him but had no where to go
for treatment or a place to live.
It was Casa Peregrina that took in the addict and her children
and the woman who had been held hostage for eight months. On the
day we visited Casa Peregrina almost all the women that were currently
staying at the house were out looking for work or were working.
Only two women remained there with their children. The addict's
newborn was left there but the two women, both with their own
problems, took turns looking after the baby while their mother
was being evaluated in the hospital at an appointment set up by
Casa Amiga.
So this was how it was in Cd. Juárez preparing these stories:
everywhere we turned kind-hearted, good people were helping others
that had experienced what Guillermina González of Voces
sin Eco called, "the most horrible things in all of history."
While I had hoped to do a few more stories on women, women's groups
and different aspects of women's lives on the border I ran out
of time and resources to continue my effort.
Thus at first I was worried that the interview with farm worker
Lorenza Primera--known by all as Doña Lincha--would not
quite fit in with the tone of these articles. However, about half
way through our conversation she told me that one of her daughter's
had been killed by her own husband. The awful coincidence of her
story crossing into this area was horrible but undeniable.
But there was another coincidence as well and that is that Doña
Lincha is like many of the other women described in these articles.
She did not let the loss of her daughter defeat her and she struggled
to bring her murdered daughter's children to this country. Also,
she has worked as a legal and health volunteer for years and has
aided many farm workers and women.
Please take the time to read her story here as it is as remarkable
as any I've ever encountered and more remarkable than most.
Finally, a plea for help. Voces sin Eco is comprised of just a
few families and they need money, a phone line, a phone, a fax
machine, a computer, a printer and a copier for their office.
Casa Peregrina needs contributions of money, women and children's
underwear, towels and sheets. Casa Amiga could use its own shelter
and every city on the border needs at least one rape crisis center.
Myself and some others are going to do what we can on our own
time toward meeting these needs. If you can help please contact
Frontera NorteSur at frontera@nmsu.edu.
Greg Bloom
FNS Editor